One comment deleted. Comments in AskMeFi should answer the question being asked rather than discussing it's formulation.

Lemkin: "Mods, please delete the post. I also encourage you to update the policy."

The post has been deleted, leaving this thread for those who still want to discuss AI content in posts.

ominous_paws: "suck shit" Comment removed for being a crappy first comment in a thread. It's fine to disagree with or dislike the subject of the post, but please be more articulate about why you dislike it. If you can not or do not want to be clear about your dislike, feel free to move on to a different thread, or create you own about a subject you do like.

Noting the flags on this post with AI generated content. Leaving it up for now, because there's no rule or guideline against a post that has AI content, the only rule we have applies to comments. That said, it would be best if anyone does make a post with AI content that it be tagged "AIcontent" (which I've now added to this post) so that people can use MyMeFi to filter out posts tagged as such. All that said, if people that wish to talk about whether AI content should be posted to MetaFilter at all, feel free to create a MetaTalk post for the community to discuss. That discussion should not be had in this post, and comments attempting to do so will be removed.

One comment calling another Mefite "bald-faced liar and totally full of shit" deleted. While MetaTalk is very lightly moderated, name calling, is still against our content policy. Please do not do that.

By OP's request, changed "from sea level summit" to "from sea level to summit"

tivalasvegas: "So, here's the thing. This sounds like a great idea. I'm all for it. BUT. Is this a priority?"

I believe you were just making it point with this example, but just want to make it clear that no one is making this a priority (being able to link serial posts or doing it manually for tinyfryingpan). It was just a neat idea adn Kirkaracha is probably just throwing it on a list.

Otherwise, the site update will be out next week, we're aiming for May 29th and hoping (fingers and toes crossed) to include the financial info in it.

No absolute promises because I'm not involved in correcting, checking, or finalizing the info (and thus can't speak to specifics), but people are working and hoping to finish this project.

Furnace of Doubt: "I would be fine with that email, but I also have a lot of non-binary friends, so I'm not sure how more conservative co-workers would react. Your proposed email sends friendly enough to me. Maybe change "should be used" to "I prefer they be used"?"

Hi, just a note that the wording "I prefer they be used" can be seen as offensive and transphobic. There is no "preference", a person's pronouns are what they are and no one should have to say they have a preference on that matter. A person's pronouns are their pronouns, period.

Final update from the OP:

It turns out the scene was from Season 4, Episode 1 of Parks and Recreation:

Andy: Hey, so Tom offered me a job again. As my manager, what do you think I should do?
April: Well what do you want to do?
Andy: I think it’d be kind of cool to work for Tom.
April: So take it.
Andy: But working at a start-up can be kind of risky.
April: So don’t take it.
Andy: But Tom told me to follow my dreams.
April: So take it.
Andy: But this isn’t my dream.
April: So don’t take it.
Andy: I don’t know what to do.
April: Me neither.
Andy: You give such good advice. Babe, I love you.
April: You’re welcome.

Thanks all!

One comment and a reply to it deleted. Do not make jokes about race and ethnicity, even if it's about fictional characters.

No comments removed; just noting that the comment above from donnagirl about anotherpanacea is picking some flags and while we will not remove it, let's please avoid drawing attention/calling out buttoned users.

One deleted, wrong episode!

Two deleted, poster’s request.

No deletions made but let's about derail about word count.

kirkaracha: "Since serial posts are OK, would it be useful to have a new feature to navigate between the posts in a series? Like an index or table of contents."

This would be very cool and useful in these circumstances. Thanks for the suggestion, I'll relay it to the development team! :)

Fixed!

Rash: "I don't set policy, but if I did these types of posts would not merely be allowed, but encouraged. (That is, if they aren't already.)"

The unwritten rule is that anything that doesn't cause a problem is fine.

So if someone wanted to do a series of posts on how different types of paint dry on different types of materials that would be fine.

Thinking about it as a I write this comment, a series of posts about a subject could also be a great way of teaching about a subject. Say I wanted to do a post about X, but there was a lot of information, too much for a single person to learn and put in a post. Breaking that learning up into several posts would be a good way to digest and share that information.

nightcoast: " mods, please correct the title, it should be Montague'd!" No worries, fixed!

donnagirl: "Also I just realized that this is the slowness thread not the most recent site update thread."

Here's the link to the most recent site update thread

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EmpressCallipygos: "Hey, donnagirl, can you please keep site discussions out of Fanfare?"

That comment has been removed and this mod note has the explanation for the removal.

A derailing comment by donnagirl removed because it was asking about information related to the MetaFilter and was unrelated to this thread.

Please do not purposefully derail threads. If this behavior continues, bans of increasing length may be issued.

If you have questions for the MetaFilter board, feel free to contact them directly via email or by creating a MetaTalk post.

windbox: "I love when people just admit that their politics and entire political imagination is pretty much guided entirely by petty online grievances and not much else. What an embarrassing bootlicking piece of shit this person is" Comment removed for name calling, reproduced here for public record, commentator banned for a day. If folks feel the need to start name calling, please don't, just walk away from the thread.

Added tne 'uspolitics' tag added. Several comments removed for pointedly calling out other members for their comments and making it person. Stop making moral pronouncements of other members because they have a different take, that does absolutely nothing for the conversation. Otherwise, as a political figure, Joe Biden invokes a lot of various feelings and that's understable. But please stop arguing with each other about who's right and who has the best take on him and who's morally wrong for their take, as that doesn't create or sustain any sort of constructive discussion.

tavella: "In that case, can the mods please edit this thread to show and books, and someone else can start a show thread that specifically says no mention of the books.
"

This has been done, this thread includes discussion about the books

Let’s try to comment without derailing the thread right off the bat folks. Also, keep comments on topic please.

One comment removed for including spoilers. Please stick to the events in the current or previous episodes , thanks!

Flitcraft: "Private Eye is notoriously transphobic and platforms transphobes..." This is true and transphobia is not something MetaFilter supports. This particular post is about something positive, so in that light we're leaving the post up. We do think that highlighting good examples of journalism is important and good, but that the Private Eye publication is problematic on trans issues, and that is absolutely not ok. We leave it to individual members to be aware of Private Eye's transphobia and decide for themselves whether to click on the links. If members wish to discuss this issue further, they are welcome to create a post in MetaTalk to do so.

One comment removed for not answers the question. As much as "pilots drag-racing jumbo jets" sounds fun or amusing, sharing your thoughts about it isn't what AskMetaFilter is for. Instead its content policy is stricter than most of the site and AskMe comments should solely be about answering the question.

But if anyone has info or story about drag racing jumbo jets, by all means make a post about it on the main page of MetaFilter.

One comment removed for not answering the question. Please remember that AskMe has a stricter commenting policy, where comments should be answer the question asked.

juliebug: "I'll be back in a couple weeks and see if we have any more info that's been shared."

Hey, just a note to say things are being worked on in terms of the financial reports, but I don't know when information will be finalized and shared. The board is handling all that and it's clear they'll respond when they're ready and able.

Otherwise, yeah it sucks to have wait on all this, but it is what it is at the moment.

Next general site update will be out the last week of May, by the 30th.

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DeepSeaHaggis: "God, I fucking hate millennials. 30 and 40-something do-nothings whose greatest achievement was being my shittiest roommates. Get fucked millennials. I hate you." Hey we talked about you coming into threads and sharing how you hate this, that, or a group of people. We’ve you asked to stop derailing threads in that way, but you’re still doing it. So we’re banning you for a week. Please stop doing this or we’ll have to reconsider your membership on the site. Original comment removed, and reproduced in this comment.

Comment containing allegations has been undeleted. Just noting that the comment containing the allegations is outside of anything we can do or have control over as mods. Thread will remain closed.

Mod note: Yes, the post sort of resembles a spammy advertorial, but it doesn't appear to be one, so please just continue discussing the material without worry of it being spam. If proof of spam is found, please email us or flag the post with a note.

Title changed at OP's request

One comment removed for continuing to derail the post about use of strikethroughts. Folks, strikethroughs were used in the post, so lets move on from that subject. If you feel it's a major issue, you're welcome to start a MeTa post about it, but otherwise please drop it.

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On Mefi, we generally frown upon random and unrelated comments about an actress’s body ]

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One comment removed for not answring the queston. Please note AskMetaFilter has a stricter Content Policy, where cmments should be answering the OP's question and not just lobbing opinions.

One comment that allegeing a lot of things has been removed while we look into that information.

y2karl: "Next time should you choose to do another elaborate stunt post with tons of striking, take the time to do it properly." Scolding other members for how or what they chose to post rarely ends well and often derails the discussion. Please stick to adding to or enhancing the discussion and avoid berating other members of your community. No comments have been removed, so let's please move on from this derail

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snarfois: "Still slow. 30-60 seconds to load a page.

Got 2 different Cloudflare error pages when trying to load pages:
SSL Handshake Failed (Error code 525)
Web server is returning an unknown error (Error code 520)"

Anyone else getting errors or site slowness? Please comment if so!

at: "I’ll put in a plug for a lightweight laptop"

Please note that OP is looking for desktop recommendations. Leaving this comment up as possible suggestion for OP.

pdb: "This is a really fun question, but doesn't it belong in Ask, not here?"

There's no specific problem to be solved, which AskMe is for, so am keeping it in MeTa.

DeepSeaHaggis: "Get fucked, punk. I fucking hate you." Please consider skipping a thread if all you have offer is disparaging comments about the subject and its fans. MetaFilter is all about having conversation, so just posting about how you hate something doesn't help any discussion. It just derails it or stops it cold. Let people enjoy the things they like. Move on if you do not like it or at least add to the discussion by offering something more than "I hate you". If you can't do that, we may have to remove your comments or yourself from the thread or site.

Another comment removed for revealing something that happens in the next episode.

With each arc being released in 3 episode drops, it can be difficult to keep straight what happens from episode to episode. No worries, just do the best you can and if something is revealed, just flag it and the mods will take fix it.

constraint: "I'm fully aware we'll have to run 30% of our population out." This sounds like you're advocating for some sort of forced removal, which is not ok at all on MetaFilter. Sotonohito has addressed that line of thought, so we're letting the original comment stay, but avoid posting those types of comments in the future, or we may have to remove the content and/or issue a ban. MetaFilter is not the place to be posting comments about how it's ok to remove any percentage of a population. If that's not what you meant to write, please clarify your statement and be careful what you write in the future on MetaFilter.

One comment removed for revealing something that happens next episode. Domdib i’ll MeMail you the comment, so you can edit and repost it if you like.

Mod note: Yes, there are a lot of problematic things in this post. But the OP is seeking help and wants to do better, so please focus on those aspects of the question, particularly this bit:

"Where are free places I can go to confidentially share this and start support now to address my own misogynistic behaviour and be the positive male role model when others won't."

One comment removed for joking about shooting someone. Yes, DeepSeaHaggis, Elon is a very unlikable person and has done massive amounts of harm, but it's still against the site's Content Policy to wish violence on someone.

I believe it's important to recognize that some people don't want to have or are not in a headspace to have "constructive conversations", whatever that means. And that's totally understandable with the state of the world these days. When that becomes clear, it's up to the individual to decide if they want continue conversating or move on.

Mostly, be curious instead of right. Instead of "how could you think that?!" instead write "oh, I hadn't considered that, what's your thought process?". Or something like.

Flag comments or posts if there's a derail or someone is being wildly out of pocket.

Aim to have fun or enjoy yourself on the site. It helps you to bring your own good energy to the site and discussions.

One comment removed. Please just answer the question. If your comment is posted solely to crack a joke, just know that it'll be removed, since AskMe has stricter rules than the rest of the site, see the Content Policy.

atoxyl: "Now there is also the “super button” of account wipes. That was originally by request only, I am not sure whether they have added a self-serve option?"

There is not a self serve option. Account wipes do have to be requested by emailing the mods.

One comment removed for mentioning an event in a future episode.

Yeah, it’s tricky with three episodes dropping at once, let’s all do the best we can to talk about the current or past episodes only. If mistakes are made, please just flag them, thanks!

Frimble notified of site slowness.

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Fixed a misspelling in the author's name.

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Hi samthemander, I’m not seeing any deleted/missing comments as of now. Not sure what’s going down on your end but shoot us an email if need be!

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One deleted. Let’s refrain from posting answers using Chat GPT.

Post edited to change dimensions to 15 inches to 55 per an email.

One comment removed. The question has nothing to do with OP's husband, so please avoid commenting on him

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One comment removed. It's understandable that a landlord that is not the OP would want to explain their postion, but in AskMe the main focus is on the OP and answering their question, all other content may be removed, per the Content Policy.

One commenet removed. Throwing up a quote from Blade Runner, a film from 42 years, with no context, doesn't answer the question at all. If there is a context, please help the OP by explaining what it is as it concerns their question.

*blinks slowly* Ok then, I didn't expect to get a breakdown on how long humans have known and studied bird migration, but hot damn, here we gratefully are. Thanks elgilito, we've added that fantastic knowledge drop to the sidebar and Best Of blog!

Yeah, we've all been there RobinofFrocksley! Thanks for posting this and thank you to everyone who's taken the time to add recommendations, we've added this fabulous foundation of musical fury to the sidebar and Best Of blog!

Thanks for posting this ishmael, we've added it to the sidebar and Best Of blog!

Hey Frowner, thanks for the thoughts on AI, we've added them to the sidebar and Best Of blog!

Couple of comments removed 'cause I goofed and posted about something that occurrs in the next episode, apologies!

This is great and we swear we're not procrasintating by adding this post to the sidebar and Best Of blog!

Interesting discussion and answers, thanks! We've added this to the sidebar and Best Of blog!

Added to sidebar and Best Of blog!

Just to confirm, so there's no confusion, members of the moderation team are paid

SpiffyRob: "Would love to know what observations were made by staff in recent days and what steps, if any, were taken."

Frimble took the site offline for a few minutes around 6am ET time to do some maintenance. They also cleaned up some SQL queries that were running slow. Things have been running running a lot more smoothly all day as a result.

One comment removed. Please avoid revealing details as it's FanFare policy to avoid posting spoilers. Even if you've hidden the spoiler, folks may want to talk about the spoiler in the current thread, so don't post spoilers at all, thank you.

Another comment deleted. Please stick to answering the question being asked.

Hey y’all just pushing this through so people can talk about it, no updates at the moment. I’ve been off for several days, will look more into this issue tomorrow.

Apologies for the continued problems.