I believe it's important to recognize that some people don't want to have or are not in a headspace to have "constructive conversations", whatever that means. And that's totally understandable with the state of the world these days. When that becomes clear, it's up to the individual to decide if they want continue conversating or move on.
Mostly, be curious instead of right. Instead of "how could you think that?!" instead write "oh, I hadn't considered that, what's your thought process?". Or something like.
Flag comments or posts if there's a derail or someone is being wildly out of pocket.
Aim to have fun or enjoy yourself on the site. It helps you to bring your own good energy to the site and discussions.
Mostly, be curious instead of right. Instead of "how could you think that?!" instead write "oh, I hadn't considered that, what's your thought process?". Or something like.
Flag comments or posts if there's a derail or someone is being wildly out of pocket.
Aim to have fun or enjoy yourself on the site. It helps you to bring your own good energy to the site and discussions.