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intermod: "I'll ask mods to add "newyork" as a tag."

Done!

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An anonymous poster asked us to pass the following along:

If you ever make it to Olympia, WA, there is a Secular Men's Support Group that meets twice a month to talk and offer support. It is a very DIY model if you end up starting your own group. Link to see their flyer: https://www.reddit.com/r/olympia/comments/1lt2j9i/mens_group_this_afternoon/

One comment removed due to simply writing "Lots of opinions on this".

The way AskMe works is that people ask concrete question and get (hopefully) concrete answers or suggestions about a problem they're having. Writing "lots of opinions on this" does not help the OP by offering any actual advice or solution, it's just a vague opinion. It's true, sure, people do have various opinions about the question, but that's not the sort of answer we want to encourage on AskMe.

So please try to help the OP by sharing your knowledge or information about the specific question they're having, thanks!

memoryindustries: "was I supposed to lie or omit the fact Cha t found it? Come on."

Indeed, the deletion of your comment was wrong and a mistake, for which I apologize. The original comment with the cite that proves it came from Atwood has been restored. Thank you for taking the time to make sure what ChatGPT output was correct.

phunniemee: "I'll be going back through the comments that did misgender them to change the pronouns.

I find this an odd choice of moderation."

Understood, feel free to create a new MeTa about it or bring it up to the Moderation Oversight Committee in terms of how comments that misgender a person should be handled.

Hi folks, just noting that the OP specifically uses "they" as the pronoun for Sawyer, so please avoid designating Sawyer as a "he".

I'll be going back through the comments that did misgender them to change the pronouns.

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We do encourage people who have knowledge about subjects of questions to post answers, thank you all!

FifthCupOfTea: "I’ve been driving EV for a little over 7 years now, and honestly? I’m never going back to gas unless it’s for some kind of apocalypse vehicle."

Hi, just a note that the OP has specific questions about charging an EV, not what makes an EV good to use. Please help the OP by sticking to the original question, thanks!

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FYI, this Ask post is picking some reasonable flags wondering if this might be a stunt post. We do not have any evidence that this is the case so please carry on. We'll be monitoring the post as it progresses.

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St. Peepsburg: "You won’t be able to reset her attitude for her. Thats her journey to undertake."

Hi, please note that the OP did not specify the gender of the child, and simply said "they" or "them".

Going forward let's avoid assuming the gender and just use the indicators the OP wrote in the post, thanks!

Here's a possible solution that member Richard Daly emailed to the mods:

The answer that worked for me was to use the DEL command in Windows Command Prompt, but to give it a slightly different parameter than the original poster, fantasticness, tried. Specifically, in Windows Command Prompt, from the path C:\Users\USERNAME\Desktop\ I ran the command

del "\\?\C:\Users\USERNAME\Desktop\[the entire ~255 character filename here].pdf"

The quotation marks are part of the command, the square brackets and the description inside them are not.

OP, this is coming across as chatfilter, as there's no problem to solve. If you could chime in about why you're seeking this information that would help others explain what you're seeking to do or learn with this information.

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Thank you to the original commenter for flagging that comment!

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Folks, please focus your comments on helping the OP with their question, and not so much on what other commenters are saying, unless the comment is something wildly or factually wrong, thanks!

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If you have complaints about the speed of notes, please take it to MetaTalk and avoid derailing the thread, thanks.

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Please keep answers focused on helping the OP, thanks!

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Let's all move on from that argument.

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Jessica Savitch's Coke Spoon: "Your username is chives."

Hi, if taking the time to answer, please try to make sure your answer and its meaning is as clear as possible, thanks.

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The OP wrote "If so, what is the source of this idea? I would like to see an article, if you have it."

So if people do know of published sources of the ideas the OP is asking about, it would be helpful to the OP to share those links.

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Furnace of Doubt: "I would be fine with that email, but I also have a lot of non-binary friends, so I'm not sure how more conservative co-workers would react. Your proposed email sends friendly enough to me. Maybe change "should be used" to "I prefer they be used"?"

Hi, just a note that the wording "I prefer they be used" can be seen as offensive and transphobic. There is no "preference", a person's pronouns are what they are and no one should have to say they have a preference on that matter. A person's pronouns are their pronouns, period.

Final update from the OP:

It turns out the scene was from Season 4, Episode 1 of Parks and Recreation:

Andy: Hey, so Tom offered me a job again. As my manager, what do you think I should do?
April: Well what do you want to do?
Andy: I think it’d be kind of cool to work for Tom.
April: So take it.
Andy: But working at a start-up can be kind of risky.
April: So don’t take it.
Andy: But Tom told me to follow my dreams.
April: So take it.
Andy: But this isn’t my dream.
April: So don’t take it.
Andy: I don’t know what to do.
April: Me neither.
Andy: You give such good advice. Babe, I love you.
April: You’re welcome.

Thanks all!

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at: "I’ll put in a plug for a lightweight laptop"

Please note that OP is looking for desktop recommendations. Leaving this comment up as possible suggestion for OP.

Mod note: Yes, there are a lot of problematic things in this post. But the OP is seeking help and wants to do better, so please focus on those aspects of the question, particularly this bit:

"Where are free places I can go to confidentially share this and start support now to address my own misogynistic behaviour and be the positive male role model when others won't."

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Yeah, we've all been there RobinofFrocksley! Thanks for posting this and thank you to everyone who's taken the time to add recommendations, we've added this fabulous foundation of musical fury to the sidebar and Best Of blog!

Interesting discussion and answers, thanks! We've added this to the sidebar and Best Of blog!

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